This out of memory error suggests that your replication machine is starving for ram

To accomodate, we will need to modify some settings to use less resources

Please stop the add2exchange service

Go to the a2e toolbox from the desktop

Select "Minimize db footprint" from the free side and press GO

It will limit or sql use of memory to 100 meg

Reboot the machine

Consider putting more ram in the machine if possible

Log back on and see from the Add2Exchange log that there is successes again